Tuesday, October 02, 2007

Thoughts On Being Down

I was thinking about this topic and actually read the 2nd sentence below (or something like it) in a book afterwards. Then I read the Joel Osteen daily about forgiveness that I shared in the Joel Osteen post and then I had a friend mention something about someone being down due to some tough times. In other words, the topic was in the air so I figured I'd write about it.

I think everything in life serves a purpose, even being down. Being down is a good motivator for asking and searching. Asking what? The right questions, of course. Not the "what am I doing, wearing, eating today" kind of questions but the "who am I, why does this upset me so, what am I supposed to learn from this, how do I handle that." And, searching for what? For who you really are, what you're made of, your core bravery in the face of life, in the face of anything that comes your way.

This is when thinking is good for you. Otherwise it'll take you down places that while in the end, if you survive them, may have been good for you, they weren't really necessary had you had the tools to know what to do with yourself in the meantime (when you're in the middle of the dumps). As David Hawkins says in Reality & Subjectivity, "your brain is like Einstein with a gun." (Great quote, huh?) You ain't kidding, man! That's one powerful little 8-pound sucker and, like the "devil" or a bad choice, it'll take you where you don't have to go ... if you let it.

(entry started Tuesday, posted Saturday AM)

Maturity Is Not A Four-Letter Word

It takes maturity to ...

* do the right things (even if it pains your dumbass EGO)
* laugh at yourself
* agree to disagree (and still love or accept someone)
* let go
* forgive (others and, even more, yourself)
* move on
* stop whining about things that do not matter
* be optimistic, hopeful, positive
* take care of yourself
* choose to intentionally and consciously grow
* love

Maturity is a very good thing.

(entry started Tuesday, posted Saturday AM)

Let's Talk About Sex, Baby!

Do you know good sex?

Do I sound like HBO's Sex & The City's Carrie Bradshaw or what? ha ha ha This topic came up courtesy of listening to Gayle King's show on Oprah & Friends on XM Radio. They were in Miami this past weekend and so the show yesterday and today were ones recorded here. Anyway, yesterday's was about sex with a lady who used to write for Sex & The City and who now writes a column on sex for O Magazine and today's was on food with Art Smith, Oprah's chef. Do you know good food? hee hee I had to.

Well, I can safely say I know both. Yippee! I'm not big on food (never have been) but fine dining? Fine dining is a DREAM! If you've never had it, you must. Yummy! And sex, well, as good as I've had it, I still giggled and blushed like a schoolgirl at that show yesterday. It was just so hilarious and great. Get girls talking about sex and that's what happens sometimes, huh?

Anyway, I'm not gonna go into any sex stories of mine here - NO WAY! - but I will say I am happy to have had all of my experiences and that I am beyond satisfied with the loving in my marriage. Blush, blush, blush. :-) NO complaints here. Enough said!